Great Lives Workbook

Reflection: Releasing the Need to Retaliate

Make space to name an offense while considering what forgiveness does and does not require.

What offense are you still replaying, and what does holding onto it cost you?How do you distinguish forgiveness from pretending that harm did not happen?When have you needed the patience or forgiveness of another person?What boundary may still be necessary even if you choose to forgive?What could help you respond without escalating a conflict?Is there a safe and appropriate way to communicate that you are releasing resentment?

Discussion leader notes (page references, prompts, and facilitation path)

Chapter 21: Being Big Enough to Forgive

Chapter 21: Being Big Enough to Forgive

Reflection: Releasing the Need to Retaliate